Wake up each morning remembering that it’s entirely possible that you’ll die today.
Remember that if not today, maybe tomorrow. It’s not a matter of if, but when. When making your day to day decisions, and your life choices; put them in context to your death. You won’t win the race with her; so what are you holding on to? Let her not be what weighs you down and keeps you afraid, but instead realize you have nothing to loose. Let death be what keeps you grounded, motivated, humble, grateful, fearless, and most importantly- liberated.